If you are male and you are reading this review, don’t be embarrassed that you’re reading it. Sex is a natural thing, and oral sex is just a part of it (maybe even the best part of it). However, if you are a woman and are offended by the title itself, then I suggest you not to read the rest of this article.
The history of oral sex
If you look at some of the ancient texts, going from Egypt and all the way to Greeks, you will see that oral sex was present in those civilizations. Yes, they all did it: Egyptians, Romans, Greeks… Moreover, they did it in a more obscure ways than we do it. But that makes sense, right?
Before the rise of the monotheistic religions (they did exist, but still didn’t spread), humans engaged in orgies all the time. If you look at Greek, for example, the sexuality was present in every aspect of their lives, from art to polytheism. They even had the God of Wine, Dyonisis, whom they celebrated by drinking wine and, guess what, organizing orgies.
There is evidence to support these claims. You can find elements of oral sex in Egyptians burial tombs. Furthermore, Pompei, a city destroyed in the volcanic catastrophe, had a lot of brothels. Moreover, these brothels had the names of their best employees written on the doors, and some of them were quite handy with their mouth.
While sex is no longer that big of a taboo, oral sex is. But, the importance of oral sex is well known throughout the history. It is often performed as foreplay, or as a very intimate sexual act between two partners.
And just because Romans did it, that doesn’t mean it wasn’t taboo. But unlike the Western cultures (apart from Greeks, they didn’t really have taboos), Chinese, especially Taoists, saw oral sex is seen as a very spiritual activity.
Furthermore, just because oral sex is still a taboo, that doesn’t mean people don’t do it. Youngsters and adults, from the Far East to West, they all do oral sex. Why? Well, anyone that tried oral sex knows why.
Boys will be boys
Only man can understand why they love blowjobs and can’t get enough of it. Looking at it from an outsider’s perspective, it is actually not a beautiful act. But, think it through.
1. There is more to blowjob than you know it. Having your penis in woman’s mouth is a very risky business, isn’t it? A lot of things could go wrong if a woman decides to hurt you.
2. Furthermore, even though we look at blowjob as a strictly physical and sexual activity, it isn’t that simple. It is also a loving act. If you are in a relationship with women for let’s say 15 years and she is still giving you blowjobs, you know she loves you.
3. Men like when a woman respects them. No, I’m not talking about obedience or fear or anything power-related. Respect is a philosophical concept, not biological. If she is giving you blowjobs, you know she respects you, your needs and wishes.
What if she’s not giving you blowjobs?
There are two ways you can handle this problem. The first way would be to simply give up. You beg for a while and realize that it is ultimately her decision. The second way is to continue reading this review in order to figure out the solution to your problem.
Men tend to think that they are more obsessed with sex than women; wrong. You have absolutely no idea how much women want sex, and to what ends are they willing to go in order to get what they want. It is just a combination of biology and evolution.
What you need to do is take advantage of what nature gives you: “when life gives you lemons…”
Improving your odds
There are two ways you need to know before I go into specifics. Both men and women lie about their blowjobs.
Men lie because they want the whole pie for themselves, which makes sense. Men that get often blowjobs obviously know something you don’t, but when you ask them about their secret, they will say things like “you just have to be more confident”, which never really works.
Women lie about the real reason why they give you blowjobs. Of course, if they told you that it is mostly up to you whether or not she will give you a blowjob, they couldn’t help themselves.
All these secrets, amongst many others, can be found in Brian’s BJ Power Play, the ultimate blowjob technique.
What is The BJ Power Play
As the name suggests, the purpose of this program is to increase your chances of getting a blowjob you want. This system is based on 3 simple steps.
But before I go into the specifics of these steps, you must realize that you control how women look at oral sex. Hard to accept it, but it’s the truth. Many men don’t get sexual satisfaction because they aren’t aware of this fact. Also, you won’t hear this anywhere else.
Think of marketing for a second, and what they are telling you. They tell you that you have to use specific deodorant or perfume, drink the right beer or drive the right car in order for women to notice you. Of course, they will tell you that because their profit depends on it.
Women want to know why are you doing things you do, the purpose of specific actions. They want to you to tell them what are you thinking about and why you do things in the way you do it. This is your guaranteed ticket to any kind of sexual pleasure you seek.
Step #1: Power Flux
If you have a wife or girlfriend and she stops you giving blowjobs, that is on you, not her. This happened because you didn’t respond to her questions the way you should. It was you who turned her off and made the idea of blowjob meaningless.
Relationships are power plays, and you hold the cards. This is what psychologists call Influential Authority, and as soon as you regain it, she will give you anything you want. After all, who are you to deny them what they really want, right?
Step #2: Framing
This step is formed around the idea of Personality Consistency. You have to tell the women who you are right from the start. Of course, you should be honest if you are looking for a long term relationship. However, if you are looking for a one night stand, act and behave in a consistent manner.
When your behavior doesn’t change and assuming that woman likes it, she will see that you are confident, someone she can trust. And when it comes to sexual intimacy, trust plays a huge role in it.
She has to earn the right to have sex with you; that’s just how they work. If you push too soon, she won’t get turned on. So, you will use the BJ Power Play techniques and play this bait and rewards system with her.
Step #3: Inclusion
Inclusion is a powerful psychological technique you will use to turn blowjobs into a bonding activity between you and your woman. It is great if you use it on your girlfriend or wife because you already went through the 3rd step with her.
Also, you can use this technique on any women you meet and find attractive. Women are very sensual and sensitive, and when it comes to sex, most of it goes down to emotions and trust.
Why should you buy BJ Power Play?
The purpose of this BJ Power Play is to increase your chances of getting a blowjob, plain and simple. However, I’m not sure I should be calling it a system or a program. When it comes to writing reviews, I want to describe the product as it really is.
Because there are no definitive manuals or guidelines, it is hard to call BJ Power Play a system. In its own way, it is a man’s philosophy. It is a book filled with valuable information and explanations.
Furthermore, this package comes with 7 bonuses:
1. Private PCR Workshop
2. The ER Cycle
3. How To Get Blowjobs: Female Psychology
4. Interview with Maria J, Brian’s Favourite Blowjob Girl
5. Collection Of Real-Life Case Studies
6. Origins Of BJ Power Play
7. Brian’s Black Book Of Dirty Tricks
Feel free to read more about these bonuses if you are interested. I also want to point out that this product comes with a 60-day money back guarantee policy, and if you get what you want in those 60 days, ask for your money back. So check out the product, read some other reviews if you wish, check the bonuses and decide whether or not this is a product for you.