500 Intimate Questions For Couples Review
Hey, there. I’m writing this review to share my experience with this amazing book. I have been married for 7 years now, about to have my first child.
I remember I decided to buy this book not because we were in trouble, I felt my marriage was going well, I got it because I felt that there was something missing, that maybe I could do more.
When you have been married for more than 5 years, routine starts to be extremely noticeable. It is very easy to fall into the “how was your day” dynamic, and just leave the deep, sharing, moments for when they spontaneously come up.
We start to take each other for granted, without knowing. I don’t think most couple take themselves for granted on purpose, who would want to fall on that on purpose?
Still, I knew something was missing, not wrong, just missing.
Accepting the truth
Once, in a party, a friend of mine was talking about his marriage and how things had been improving in the last few months. His secret? He was doing the 500 Intimate Questions For Couples with his wife.
When I first heard this, I thought: What a loser! Having to go to a book in order for him to know how to relate with his wife. But then, as he went on with the details of his improvement, I could relate to many of the issues and became curious about it.
Why look for help
We rarely think about socializing and improving our relationships as things that can be addressed by books. We are expected to naturally know how to deal with people and have successful interactions, but the reality is that, for the most part, we don’t know how do this instinctively.
There are hundreds of books on how to have a conversation and keep it going, or how to introduce yourself in a party, etc.
I was one of the shy ones, believing that going to a book for relationship advice was for losers, but here is the thing.
Whatever I had been doing with my wife, and all the women before her, I was doing out of the blue, naturally, without thinking much. But there is always room for improvement.
It’s not common to learn:
- How to make a woman feel comfortable
- How vulnerability turns them on
- How to build trust
No one teaches us this, not even our families for the most part.
I knew something was missing, and I thought maybe this was it.
500 Intimate Questions For Couples
So, I went and read some reviews, took a look into the website, read everything Michael Webb had to say, and thought this could be a great opportunity to improve my dynamics in my marriage.
I was not about “improving my marriage” but rather, bring more fun and openness to our conversations.
Also, I loved the money back policy, Michael is so confident on his product.
So, I buy 500 Intimate Questions For Couples, get it as a PDF in my inbox, with the bonus material I’ll talk about later, and start reading.
For the most part, I am one to jump right into action whenever I have an idea or just want to do anything. But this was an important project in uncharted territory, I would have to learn more, so I read the book first.
Some questions, especially after you pass the 100 mark, were so intimate, I was intimidated by thought of having to ask this to my wife, and then it hit me: It can’t be that I feel so shy around her, we are married, this shouldn’t be happening.
This is when I finally understood that this eBook had been a great investment.
One of Michael’s recommendations, in the book, is that you take time and follow the order. He recognizes that not every couple has an intimacy level that will allow to immediately start sharing deep, intimate, stuff.
Also, maybe you do have this trusting relationship, but the fact that you start asking this questions can still strike up as news, so then, it could be better to start from the beginning so that the tone is set, and people feel comfortable.
I decided to start from the beginning, but not tell her exactly what I was doing.
So, during the day, I would memorize 3-5 questions, and just ask them before bed. I found a way to connect them, and it came as natural conversation. Oh, she was so happy, I actually had to distribute the questions throughout the day, after the first week.
If I asked during the night, she would talk, a lot, and it could go for hours.
Texting became incorporated. When it was lunch break, I’ll start texting, ask, and started learning new things about her that maybe I had noticed in the past, but I didn’t really know how to call them, or relate to them.
After 3 days, the first spark of curiosity for my new interest came up in conversation. We didn’t talk much that night, we focused on something else.
Sense of intimacy
In my mind, even though we were not expecting at the time, my wife is my family, and we are there to support each and keep each other good company, and love each other, for the rest of our lives. But, I also have a man side that wants to have fun, and be treated like a man sometimes, instead of only the husband.
I was very afraid to share this sort of stuff with her, but I didn’t know.
As we went deeper and deeper with the questions, and I was giving honest answers, and she as well, I started noticing that:
- I didn’t know much about her
- She didn’t know much about me
- We were more open than we imagined
- We were feeling more comfortable
As you follow the progression in the eBook, you will start generating a space of trust and a dynamic of sharing and opening up with each other. This is very important for them.
She has a sexual side too, but for her, most of her life, she was not allowed to bring it out, and so she became shy. As one asks away, things start getting unveiled, and then she starts sharing what she really wants, then you will know the map to pleasing her.
The questions in the book, most of them, I wouldn’t have been able to come up with by myself. They are really interesting and make you reflect on your own ideas and how you are relating that to you girlfriend or wife.
Why does it work
- It’s gradual
- It’s honest
- Builds on trust
- Creates acceptance
The last point is very important. As we went on with the book, and she was sharing with me, I was amazed to learn how kinky she really was, but she didn’t really feel the trust to be that with me.
As I became more accepting of this side of her, we became more open to trying new things in bed, and she asking from me whatever you needed, sexually. It was great.
However, and be warned, don’t buy this book if you will not accept her. If she is sharing a naughty secret with you and you will feel offended, or shame her, then keep away from this book.
But, if you are ready to please her, to fulfill her desires, to let her open her secrets to you, then go ahead and get this amazing eBook. You will be surprised by the things you will learn about her, and how easily, with this progression, you will get to the secrets of her pleasure.
I want to know that my wife is getting her pleasure from me. That whatever she needs in bed, I can supply, and do it well.
I am telling you, we had never been better.
How does it work
As mentioned in the review, 500 Intimate Questions For Couples contains especial questions to ask your loved one, but also it contains a progression. This progression builds trust, trust helps with honesty, and so you will be getting honest answers.
When people are being honest, they are looking for acceptance. You don’t need to agree, or like, everything you will find out, but just accepting it for what it is, is good.
I say this because, regardless of how conservative you are in your personal values, sex is an important part of marriage. If you are reading reviews about 500 Intimate Questions For Couples, then it means you are looking to improve, and this offers exactly that.
If my wife, out of the blue, would have told me how much she likes certain stuff that I don’t normally do, or shared about a thing or two that she always wanted to experience but never had the courage to ask, I would have been taken by surprise.
But because of the progression, things came up more naturally, still surprising, but in a good way.
As we became more accepting of each other’s kinks, we became more fun, and we started sharing more interesting intimate moments.
Sometimes, we couldn’t even finish our night talk because she would dim the lights, and change the topic.
We were reconnecting amazingly.
101 Romantic Ideas
Besides the eBook with the questions, you also get bonus material when you buy the book. One of them is this masterpiece: 101 Romantic Ideas.
I consider myself a good person and husband. Whenever there is a especial date, I would remember and take her for dinner, movies, or a trip: What everyone else does!
Or, I give her practical gifts, things she can use on her daily life. That’s the way I think, and those are the gifts I like. She never asked for more, but when I started taking these ideas into the real world, she was more than happy.
Getting flowers had more meaning, dinners became special, we were more spontaneous. I learned to gift experiences and feelings, instead of just a thing. Dinner is not the important thing, the important thing is the conversation, the time you spend together, the atmosphere, etc.
Through this book, I was able to connect the dots.
After doing some ideas I thought were great, and most of them gave amazing results. I noticed I could come up with great ideas myself now. So, I learned how to be more romantic, and then I was able to translate it to my reality, and here we are.
The other books
Besides 500 Intimate Questions For Couples and 101 Romantic Ideas, you get a PDF with 53 sexy coupons, and another PDF eBook on how to Give Great Massages to your Partner.
I have struggled in the massage department, but she actually took the book, learned from it, used me to practice every day, and it was glorious. Happy endings included from time to time, it couldn’t get better.
The coupons, she gets one every so often. I don’t want it to become a routine. For example, when we are doing a romantic idea, or on special dates, or when she least expects it. We get to share amazing moments together.
She found out
One day, by mistake, she found the eBook open in my computer, copied to hers, and started reading.
Because of the level of trust we had developed, she came clean some days later, confessed, and she was so happy I had done that.
I explained her that, well, my creativity when it came to improving things was limited, and that I was doing it like this because the ideas and material was good and helpful. She completely understood.
She found my project so good, she took part in it to make it even better.
We have developed a space to communicate and bring out the best of us by communicating in an intimate way. Every time we went out, she would prepare questions and things started to be flow better.
I know this was my project, and I loved it, but, when she took over. Things became so much easier.
We were more comfortable, she started asking for things in bed she wouldn’t ask before, I wanted to experiment something and it almost always happened, it was amazing.
Take a step in the right direction
If you are feeling a little lost in your relationship, if you think that things are getting distant or cold, or if your relationship is actually well, and you just want to make it better, 500 Intimate Questions For Couples could work wonders for you.
Sometimes, we imagine things that we don’t really know if they are true or not, but we act on them because we are afraid of actually asking and finding out the truth. But if you ask, for the most part, you will find that “the problem” is actually simpler than you think.
500 Intimate Questions For Couples PDF contains questions made by real people, in a healthy progressive order, that will help you guys open up and get closer together.
- Improved, daily life, communication
- More trust
- Better intimate connection
- More fun
- Comfort in the relationship
When we were done with the 500 questions, I noticed we were able to discuss almost any topic with more ease, and knowing that the other person was actually listening.
Because things were more easily shared among us, I stopped finding hidden resentment, or untreated anger. Rather, she learned how I like to deal with emotions, and she took it to action. Now it works better.
Sex has never been better. We have so much freedom in bed, with each other. I am now, fully certain, that I please her, I learned from her, and I followed her advice.
It is perfectly fine to not know by default how to improve your relationship with your woman. No one teaches that, and for many of us it is like a maze.
Looking for help to improve your relationship is completely valid, starting with this eBook can be a great advance on getting your relationship to that great new stage.
Sex is not only about physical pleasure; the mind plays a huge part on it. If we know how to stimulate the mind of our loved one, make her feel comfortable, accepted, and loved, she will be open to try almost anything, and come back looking for more
Don’t buy subscriptions to courses that turn out to be a scam to be constantly getting your money, better, to buy a book, that gives you tools to, independently, improve your situation and make her happy.
Give it a go, she will be very happy.