For years, marriage and love blended together like bread and butter. Bliss fell upon us both but I guess nothing lasts forever. If you try to look at things, everything is okay and nothing seems to matter.
However, you feel that there really is something amiss. Something is already off and you know that something wrong is happening. Knowledge empowers a person but how can you empower yourself like this? You need to learn what makes you feel uncomfortable.
You need to learn are the techniques to catch your spouse! Behold Sarah Paul, the best person who understands how to cheat. With our review of her book, How To Catch A Cheating Spouse, you’ll know what is happening during the times you’re not at home. These times are the most dangerous but they present the perfect opportunity for you to catch him/her.
As we review the book, you’ll see the different ways your spouse is cheating on you. You’ll also see the signs you’ll have to look for. These signs will tell you how you should react and whether you should be alarmed. In the end, you’ll know whether to save your love or to let it fade away into the abyss.
Stop Your Spouse from Blaming You!
One thing I learned from this review resonates to this day. I was never wrong and I was being tricked by my spouse. She made it look like I was the one who was unfaithful and disloyal. Nevertheless, this book helped me prove that I did nothing wrong and my hunches were right.
- I learned that my spouse uses different lies.
Lies that make me look like the culprit. I was being reversed! It was only a matter time before I realized that all those reversals were tricks. Today, no matter how my spouse tries to lie, I can see through it. It turns out, the methods taught in the book comes from tested and proven psychological approaches to catch liars and con artists.
- Phones aren’t evil, it’s the users who are.
I really not a techie kind of person. I used to frown upon my spouse whenever she tries to text in front of me. It became an endemic problem. She texted and faced her phone most of the time and even password-protected it.
How To Catch A Cheating Spouse shows me I can use technology to my advantage. You can access the phone and even undelete the text messages no matter how long they were deleted! Phones were not the problem though, it was the person using it.
- You can look for the evidence
Stop those reversals by showing her the evidence! The best way to reveal your spouse is to collect the evidence against him or her. These techniques, I believe, are the same as those used by Sherlock Holmes! Of course, anyone will go that far to catch a cheater. Sarah Paul captures the idea greatly.
Start Seeing the Signs
The most amazing things this book tells you are the signs to look out for. It captures it beautifully. You will feel frustrated for not noticing it the first time. Still, it never is too late. The book tells a great deal about the signs you should notice.
Different reviews claim that they are real and effective. These signs tell whether your spouse breaks the bond you shared with an affair:
- The difference in body language.
If you feel like your spouse is cheating, don’t hesitate. Check if it really happens. The book tells the different changes in the language of the body. As such, I immediately determined the different weird body languages coming from my spouse.
The book tells it in detail so you can easily determine them, too. You can also see his or her behavior change gravely when he or she starts cheating. Again, if you feel it, do not let it pass.
- Changes sex behavior.
Sex is the most intimate form of connection you can have. If that changes or something is amiss with it, brace yourself. Your spouse may already be cheating on you. Amazingly, you can even determine how long the affair has lasted. Do not let it happen behind your back and read the book now.
- Notice if your spouse is being too careful
Normally, your spouse should be who she/or he is when around you. If he/she goes to the extra mile to cover up on mistakes, something may already be up. Be sure to check yourself and be ready to fight for your right.
Cheating is bad especially if it hurts you. My wife cheated and she did it well. I wanted to scream out loud! All I had to do was notice these signs. Today, here we are, stronger than ever before.
What I love about the book
I loved many things about the book as the review went on. How To Catch A Cheating Spouse uses up the different techniques and methods available to you. What you pay for it is very satisfying.
While it’s true that private investigators are good at their work, you can save the money by doing it yourself. Now, this is not just any type of DIY thing. You gain better knowledge that you can use to avoid further occurrences of having an affair.
- It uses technology at its best.
Since the download was electronic, it was fast! I got to reading almost immediately. The extra, “Spy Gadgets & Surveillance Made Easy, helps a lot. It even comes with different software guides to help you track infidelity. Some record key logs and tell you how to secretly place cameras.
- I became my own Sherlock Holmes.
What’s amazing is that even after the affair, all that I have learned stayed with me. I still know how to look for clues and evidence. I still remember how to catch my spouse when she tries to lie. Another thing is no matter where I look, I gained the ability to deduce things better.
- We became stronger.
What happens after you catch her cheating? Either make-up or your break-up. It was heartbreaking. Talking about the affair is not easy but understanding how you must move on after the affair is important. Sarah Paul makes it clear – no one should cheat. Everyone should stay loyal to their wife or husband.
- I did something wrong, too
One good thing about the review is that I learned that some of my action actually led to her cheating. I was becoming lenient and that affected her all too much.
Things the book should improve
Don’t get me wrong, the book is already amazing. There are just things you should take note of. As a person who has read many books, I have done many reviews. Of course, if there are pros, cons will be present. Here are some of them:
- I wanted it to focus on techniques regarding body language.
Well, that is just for me. 15 tips weren’t enough to satisfy me. It told me how to check for errors and mistakes of my spouse. I wanted to go deeper. Still, it is just enough for the detection.
- It may be treated as mistrust and unfaithfulness.
I hate being accused of cheating I believe that my wife also feels bad whenever I say that she does it. Getting these techniques might make you feel that you are being unfaithful. However, the key to this is to remember that you are doing this to save the love. You do not make it worse.
- You cannot unlearn the techniques
Ignorance is bliss. I guess it really hurts to know that your spouse cheats on you. You need to be prepared as the techniques are useful and effective. They do not, however, prepare your heart and mind for the pain you will experience.
Should you buy the book?
So, you gain the knowledge of a private detective. You also learn the different techniques to see body language. Furthermore, you also gain technological skills that keep you in touch with tricks and mysteries of the current age. What more can you ask for?
The extras also give you an insight on how to do the proper surveillance. To top it all off, you are guaranteed that this will work. You can get your money back if it does not.
Absolutely! Even if you are not married yet, making the necessary precautions is important. You need to get ready before the storm. That calamity does not announce itself when it comes over. It will rain upon you anytime of the day.
Many reviews also state that the book revels on amazing techniques. They actually told the truth! With this book, you can ensure the safety of your love, loyalty, and faith. There should be trust, yes. You will take this as a precaution, not as a sign of mistrust. Go ahead and buy the book, you’ll never regret it!